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Nicholena (Nikki) Gramith, passed away on November 8, 2026 at Brookdale Assisted Living, Wilton, CT at 95 years old. She was born in Faeto, Foggia, Italy on August 27, 1931 to the late Silvio and Igina (Gallucci) Guarnieri.
Nikki immigrated to the United States at the age of two and was raised in Stamford’s West Side neighborhood. She met her future husband Eddie during her high school years, and prior to starting her family, she worked at Pitney Bowes in Stamford. She and Eddie went on to raise their three children (Linda, Lisa and Laurie) in Stamford, creating a home centered around tradition.
An active and energetic spirit, Nikki enjoyed spending her free time bowling and playing bocce. Above all, she treasured her family and friends. Rooted deeply in her strong Italian heritage, she placed an intense value on family holidays and gatherings—sparing no detail when it came to preparation and celebration. She lived for bringing people together, especially for progressive dinners and time spent with her coffee klatch group, where they always shared "coffee and" good company.
Nikki eventually moved to East Hampton, Connecticut, to be near her youngest daughter Laurie, where she became a vibrant, deeply involved member of the local Senior Center and cherished making memories with her grandchildren. Her last seven years were spent at Brookdale Assisted Living, where her warmth quickly made her a favorite among both the staff and fellow residents.
The family would like to extend their heartfelt thanks to the staff at Brookdale and hospice for their kindness, care, and compassion.
She was predeceased by her husband, Edward Gramith and daughter Lisa Bolanis. She is survived by her daughters, Linda Chinnock and husband Chris, Laurie Wosleger and husband Scott, Jim Bolanis, and her brother, Mike Guarnieri. Also surviving are five grandchildren Karen, Robert, Tyler, Austin and Owen along with four great grandchildren Lucas, Eli, Remi and Emerson.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at Sacred Heart RC Church, 37 Schuyler Ave, Stamford on November 12, 2026 at 11am. Lunch at Pellicci’s restaurant (96 Stillwater Ave., Stamford, CT) to follow.
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