Alexandra DeLeo

Alexandra “Sandie” DeLeo peacefully returned home to her Lord on September 16th, 2023 with her daughters by her side.
She is predeceased by her parents Paul and Margaret Tirpack, brother Paul Tirpack Jr. and fiancée Tony Olive. She is survived by her children Craig Boutin, Lisa DeLeo, and Tina Carlucci and grandchildren Kaylin & Cody Boutin and Mason Carlucci.
She was a loving, compassionate and generous friend, mother, and grandmother who shared her optimism and encouragement. Wherever Sandie went, she brought love and joy with her.
Sandie was a devout and active Catholic. At St Mary’s Parish she was a member of the Ladies Guild. At St. Benedict’s Parish she was Parish Council & Ladies Guild President, a member of the Entertainment committee and served as a Eucharistic Minister.
At St. Maurice Parish she was active in the Social Activities Committee, Prayer Shawl Ministry, The Liturgy Group, the Choir, Walking with Purpose Bible Study, The Stations of the Cross Ministry and served as a Eucharistic Minister. At St. Bridget’s Parish she was a member of The Ladies Guild and The Chaplet of the Divine Mercy Group.
She had a servant’s heart and volunteered for organizations including The Special Olympics, Kids Our Future tutoring, The Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation, Give2TheTroops, the Disabled Veterans and Susan G. Komen Race for a Cure.
She was a graduate of Sacred Heart University and the Education for Parish Services. Her career included working as a Purchasing Specialist for Pitney Bowes in Stamford and for Morgan Stanley Wealth Management in Westport. She is a member of the Alpha Sigma Lambda Honor Society.
Sandie excelled at staying true to her God and her family. She deeply loved her family and friends unconditionally and knew exactly how to make you feel appreciated, supported, loved, and inspired whether it was by listening without judgment, giving kind advice, keeping you in her prayers, sharing a delicious meal, giving you the perfect gift, or just being silly together. She was the kind of personal cheerleader everyone needs at some point in their life. She made you believe there was nothing you couldn’t achieve and that you deserved all the rewards.
Her boundless heart, generosity, optimism and commitment to gratitude, selfless service, kindness, and grace lives on as our inspiration. She will live on in every beat of all our hearts.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, September 30th, 2023 at 10:00 am at St. Maurice RC Church, 358 Glenbrook Road, Stamford, CT. Calling hours will be for one hour starting at 9:00 AM before the Mass at the Church. Interment will be at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Sandie’s memory to St. Maurice RC Church CAPITAL EXPENSE FUND and mailed to: St. Maurice RC Church, 358 Glenbrook Road, Stamford, CT 06906.
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